Personal Goals

Are you suffering through a life nothing like the one you once imagined, stumbling ever farther from the goals you once embraced? Are you trapped in a relationship where only the others’ needs matter, and you’re blamed if they’re not satisfied? Where your own needs for meaning barely rate secondary consideration?

Have you nearly forgotten the carefree, creative, purposeful soul you remember as your SELF, long ago?

It doesn’t matter how dismal your situation is, how long your dreams have been delayed or even abandoned. There is always a spark of light and hope, because the person you were meant to be is still inside YOU, waiting for YOU to take action!

How can I discover what is my true purpose in life, if I’m living in such a terrible relationship?

Relationships prone to violence can exist in each of our lives. People from all walks of life can and do find themselves trapped in soul-deadening relationships. Regardless of their individual background, they share several PLACES WHERE YOU COULD BE STUCK IN:

Clinging to problem-riddled relationship, replaces having own goals.

Confusion—being too focused on his change potential than in self-centeredness.

Misguided faith—they keep waiting for the other to step up to the plate. It never happens, but they keep hoping, so they can forget what they themselves were up to.

Hope—that one day they will have a healthy relationship instead of the unhealthy relationship they are trapped in,

Misinformation—about how aggressive-prone are some people and what triggers it, so being a continual victim fill her days,

Lack of trust in their own capacity to survive and thrive independently

So HOW can you escape this sad situation and get back in track with your own dreams?

Really, it doesn’t matter a lot where you are now. We are all fundamentally the same. We all want peace, loving relationships, a sense of meaning and truth, and to feel in our autumn years that the world is somehow richer for our presence. SO, look at the future, and don't look at your past! You are now in the best place to restart your search for your own fulfillment!

But where does this sense of fulfillment come from? And do we have to wait until it’s nearly over before we realize what’s truly important to us?

Working to discover your true purpose allows you to find answers to all the other questions keeping you from happiness. Once you know your purpose, you will learn to live in the manner most satisfying to YOU. Purpose is a focus, an intent. Finding your purpose will allow you to answer: What do I intend to give to the world?

Do you wish to leave this planet with things untried, undone and unsaid? In our heart of hearts, each of us wants to live passionately according to whom we truly are at our deepest level, and to strive for our most noble and beautiful vision of the world. Each time we go against this deep sense of knowing and rightness, we eat away at our own energy source and become compromised human beings. Consciously or not, we struggle, knowing we are someone who has settled for less than their best, who has become jaded, tired and believing more in limitation than in possibility. And being in an abusive relationship, you can count on other’s behavior to divert you from even thinking about your purpose!

Purpose is the acupuncture point of personal integrity. When we live a purposeful life, our values, our highest beliefs, and everything that is meaningful to us come into alignment and we become the expression of the best part of ourselves.

A friend of mine, who eventually died of AIDS, told me the following story: Back in the days when it took six weeks to get the results of an HIV test, a man was convinced he had contracted the virus. One of his previous partners was HIV positive, so during the six weeks he waited for his test results, he made lists of all the things he wanted to do with the final days of his life – the places he would go, the people he would meet, and those with whom he would make amends. By the time his test result finally came in, he was clear about what he wanted to do. But it turned out he was free of the virus. He was overjoyed, and invited his friends to help him celebrate. Over dinner, he produced his lists, and was just about to burn them over a candle when someone asked him what he thought he was doing.

“I'm burning my lists,” he said. “I'm going to live now. I don't need them anymore.”

“Then why not live it?” his friend asked. “If you were going to die in a year you would have done everything on that list. Now that you have 60 years, you may as well spend your whole life living your dreams. That’s the most valuable list you could have.”

Then, the moment to find your purpose is NOW, because you are asking yourself the right questions about your own life goals…and you need to connect with them NOW. The very center of your life purpose is waiting for you to make the right decision: to embrace your goals and make them a reality, so you can begin to live the life you were meant to live!

I have learned that as I live my values and share my joy, I will find a valuable role in society. What I do is far less important than my purpose behind it. I am not my job, my home, my relationship, my car. Instead, I am the sum of my purpose and life experience. Everything I have and everything I am is an extension of my true self – the more I live my purpose the more meaningful my life becomes.

I have had plenty of money and I have had none, and I’ve learned that other things are far more important. What matters is my purpose, and my actions that follow. I’ve found that purpose well into my maturity, and I’ve discovered that a large part of that purpose is to share this realization with others closer to the beginning of the path I’ve traveled.

My name is Nora Femenia, and I’ve chosen to help others take back their lives and rediscover their purposes. I do so by serving as a life coach.

Whatever your decision, I wish for you that you have the courage to connect with the original life goals that you are supposed to achieve in this life, through the help of your coach!

Call now and schedule your free consultation, and soon you’ll be on your way to having a thoughtful agreement with your Higher Self, to mobilize each of your resources towards your just discovered purpose! I can help you every step of the way through a fast, efficient process of self-growth! Click the link below for all the information that you need:

Do you know where your life purpose is now?

And how can you get there?